5 secrets to make him miss you after breakup

Guys love a confident woman. There’s just something about a woman who knows what she wants and goes out and gets it that makes her sexy.

It’s a known fact that women love a confident man, but they often overlook the fact that men want this in women too. It’s easier to have a well balanced relationship with a woman who knows what she wants as opposed to someone who’s needy and clingy.

You might not feel confident right now and that’s OK, after all you did just breakup, but you do need to tackle this head on soon. Everyone gets dumped at some point in their life, but you shouldn’t let it get you down. Look at yourself in the mirror and get back on the horse because without confidence the road to your ex boyfriend is a long, uphill climb.

Another trait that guys find sexy and attractive is independence. Most women like to think they’re independent in the various aspects of their lives, but when it comes to relationships they can become clingy and needy without knowing it.

Independence is the exact opposite of being needy. An independent girlfriend is someone who doesn’t need her boyfriend at all hours of the day and is capable of creating a fun environment for herself. This is a great trait to have as men are always more attracted to a woman who doesn’t need them for every little thing.

Your ex isn’t looking to rescue you right now and throwing a pity party for yourself won’t get him back in your arms.

If your ex suspects that you’re sitting alone in your house pining over him you put him in a position of strength. While you’re still hung up on him, he doesn’t need to worry about his greatest fear coming true which is you moving on before he does.

The ideal situation for your ex is to keep the door open. He doesn’t want to be your boyfriend again right now, but he also doesn’t want to see you dating someone else either.

He wants the door open in case he has a change of heart. Is it selfish? Perhaps. But that’s where you’re at right now.

What you need to do is the opposite of what he expects from you at this time and turn the tables on him. Instead of sitting at home waiting for the phone to ring, you need to be out having a good time surrounded by friends and family. When your ex sees you having a good time without him, his greatest fear will start to surface: the possibility of losing you to someone else.

A big turnoff for men when it comes to women is someone who is constantly surrounded by drama. Men are fairly simple when it comes to their relationships and when it comes to commitment, a low key, easy going relationship wins out over a highly dramatized one every time.

A woman who’s dramatic and high maintenance makes for a great filing, but not a great girlfriend. So if it’s a committed relationship you’re after, especially if you’re trying to get back together after a breakup, keep this in the back of your mind.

At the end of the day, the best thing you can do for yourself is to be happy. The happier your ex thinks you are without him, the more likely he’s going to want you back.

I know this sound counter intuitive right? But we all want what we can’t have and the grass is always greener on the other side. What this means for you is that your ex will never want you more than right after you’re gone. Strange but true.

However it’s imperative for you that when your ex reflects on your relationship together he sees the right things. He needs to remember the good times you had together smiling and laughing and he needs to see you doing it…all without him. You need to have such a good time without him that he’ll want to be part of it again. The more he sees you enjoying life without him, the more he’ll scheme to try and get back into your life.

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